Marriage

Loving someone is different from living with someone for life. Usually we dont see the different when both are in love....its only after the marriage, that we stayed together, that we found faults of each other, or take granted of each other. Its hard to live with a person who is totally different background than yours. I had a failure marriage...my ex. drank too much.

Being a rich family girl, i got my pride too....never go back or cry
to my parents. I also had a hard time with my in laws at that time. Imagine a so called cinderalla ended up having to do housework in the new home. Was even told by my in laws, that i need to do all the houseworks before joining my parents for lunch during week ends. Cried to myself most of the nights. Regrets never listen to my parents advise.

I have three children....all not highly educated as my sisters' children. I really look down on myself for my failure in marriage and upbringing of children. My whole life was miserable....and i only found myself useful now after taking up grooming course. I met friends, friend like Ann, Yin, gene, quin and lovdog.com's members and friends whom i met over the net.....friends like John, Yves and Ron. All the friends i met are much much younger than me , but they really treat me as friends. Ann and yin are my classmates in grooming course...and we always went for dinner after our class that is around 11.30pm.

I found my happiness after having dogs and also after i joined the grooming class.